The Ultimate Blog Party 2010…WELCOME!

Ultimate Blog Party 2010
I couldn’t be more excited to be apart of this fabulous event that’s taking place.  I heard how great last year was and can’t wait too see what’s in store this year.
I am a mom to 3 beautiful rambunctious boys. I have been married to the love of my life and teenage sweetheart for 7 1/2 years.

I have a true passion for Pregnancy & Childbirth. I just love every single aspect of it.  I am currently seeking a certification as a Childbirth Educator and Doula.

I also have a love for Style, Health, and Beauty.  I love my stillettos but seem to be wearing flats more often these days.  I must admit that I have champagne taste on a beer budget, so finding money saving deals and steals are an absolute must.  I am always on the lookout for “Must Have” products that help organize and simplify my life as a mother.  I do my best to create a healthy lifestyle for both me and my family.  I regularly search for “All Natural” recipes that are both healthy and family friendly.  I feel it’s so important to stay true to who you are, stay healthy, and simply enjoy life.

I love being a mother and wouldn’t change it for the world. But it is the most challenging job I have.  I’ve had my fair share of meltdowns. Moments of being so overwhelmed and frustrated I thought I might truly lose it. That little bit of Type A personality who strives for perfection and control, has slowly thrown in the towel (most days) and emerged into a little bit more of a laid back type B personality. Motherhood is a constant balancing act, one in which I have improved on but am still trying to master.

This is the part I just don’t quite understand. Why is the reality of becoming a mother so sugar coated? Why is that after reading every book imaginable and even having 3 sisters and friends who had children before me, I had no idea what the true reality of motherhood was like. It’s not always blissful and you won’t always completely adore your child every single minute of the his/her existence. Why is it that mothers at least those around me never talked about the challenges and difficult moments you will face? Probably because you won’t truly understand until you experience it firsthand. 

It wasn’t until I began to reach out and talk about my feelings to other mothers around me, did I realize every mother has been there. That is when I began to write my thoughts and feelings down and asked other mothers what they had experienced.

And this is when and why Modern Style Mama was created.
I wanted to create a place where
mothers, mothers to be, and women trying to conceive,
would have the ability to ask questions, get tips/advice,
and find comfort in knowing other mothers have been there.
For women to realize they aren’t alone in this Complicated World we call “Motherhood.”
Here at Modern Style Mama you will find:

Tips/Advice from Conception & Beyond. Such as: Pregnancy/Childbirth, Mommyhood/Parenting, Health and Beauty, Product Must Haves, Money Saving Deals & Steals, All Natural Recipes, an occasional Giveaway, & More.

 My regular “Simply Weekly” topics are:

Mommy Insight Q & A

Mental Notes For Mommy

Friday Favorites

Sit back, Relax, and Stay awhile!!!

Thank you so much for stopping by!!!

 Like You’ve Never Partied Before!!!

In Honor of 
5 Minute for Moms 2010 Ultimate Blog Party
 I am giving away,
2 Lovable Labels Starter Packs
US & Canada Residents #31

•15 Regular Sticker Labels
•30 Slimline Sticker Labels
•24 Iron-ons
•16 Press n’ Stick Clothing DOTS
•8 Shoe Labels
•1 Bag Tag

For more information, or to Party It Up With the Rest of Us,
 Stop by 5 Minutes For Mom TODAY!

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39 Responses to The Ultimate Blog Party 2010…WELCOME!

  1. I completely relate to this "I had no idea what the true reality of motherhood was like." — With three older sisters, I had 8 nieces and nephews before I was a mom myself. And yet I still felt like I was clueless, it was frustrating – still is at times! But we make it through, we learn plenty and become better mothers for it. Now following – glad to find you via the UBP!

  2. momondealz says:

    Great party post! As someone who struggled to get pregnant and had to have surgery to make my little man possible, it is hard to have the feelings of "What am I doing?" on somedays. It is so important to have a strong support group of other women to lean on. I am stopping by via UBP, hope you get a chance to visit my site as well!

  3. Terin Selena says:

    I too had no idea what true motherhood was like…I'm almost positive that it has some secret society rules to go along with it. See you around the UBP.

  4. Hi,Stopping by and may be back from the UBP event. You have a great blog and I will continue to follow it.Would love for you to come over to my blog's party to see how to score on hi-end fashion on a low budget.Come on over – http://taiyonsimage.blogspot.comLet's party like its 1999. 🙂

  5. Robyn says:

    Great post! I'm stopping by from the UBP! Come say hi when you can. I'm giving away a $50 Amazon gift card.

  6. Great blog! I'm an L&D nurse, so we have some of the same passions 🙂 I can't wait to read more as I look around! Stop by FTSN for a slice of peanut butter pie when you have a chance! Michelle

  7. Hi there! Stopping by from UBP. It's so fun seeing new blogs, isn't it?

  8. Hi so nice to meet you. Love your blog. Putting everyone else before us can be east to do. Thanks for inviting me to your party.

  9. Hello, I'm stoppin' over from the Ultimate Blog Party!I'm your new follower from UBP10! Visit me at and sign up for my newest giveaway!

  10. Janene says:

    Have a good time partying with UBP10. Stop by if you get a chance And see what we have to help you Stop Drop and Relax. Visit our store at and Prepare To Be Pampered.

  11. Great post and I love your blog….will be back often Blog hopping and having a blast… many great blogs….This is a GREAT party.I have a Fun $100 Gift Basket to give away and all it takes a comment.I am number….294 and 295…… Teresahttp://teresa-grammygirlfriend.blogspot.com

  12. Susieqtpies says:

    Toot Toot the #UBP10 Party Train coming through!!!I love meeting new bloggers! Love your blog! I'm a new follower, FB fan and twitter follower!!!I had horrible role models as a kid so I figured life with kids must be a real pain. Now that I have 3 of my own it is the hardest job with the best rewards! I love it. I have learned that most people have the ability to produce a child yet so many have no clue what to do.Have a great party!@Susieqtpies at Scraps of Life

  13. Momma Such says:

    Thanks so much for stopping by my blog http://raisingmy4sons.comI am following you now! I just love meeting other Moms of boys! I think it's hard for parents of girls to really understand the whole "boy" household and what goes on. It will be great getting to know you!Have a great weekend! 🙂

  14. Michelle says:

    Stopping by from UBP…this is an amazing post. My friend and I were just having this same conversation. She doesn't have any children yet and I was telling her about my day filled with meltdowns, diaper explosions and other chaos when she said it is so nice to know what I will have in store for me. I too feel that I was never exposed to how much work and how hard it is to be a mom. My mom had 4 children within 5 years and her 5th 6 years later, I though I knew what it was all about. How wrong I was…but at the end of the day I wouldn't trade it for anything. Looking forward to checking back and reading more of your posts.Thank you,Michelle

  15. Hi! I agree, moms need to share more about the ups and downs. =)

  16. blueviolet says:

    I'm following you back, pretty lady! :)I just love your blog's philosophy and intent. You rock!!!!

  17. Debbie says:

    Thanks for stopping by my blog today from the UBP. I like your blog and will stop by and visit it often.

  18. MaggieK says:

    Found my way here from UBP….I have also been married to my teenage boyfriend for 7 1/2 years…we are only on boy number 2 though (he was born this past Nov.)Love your blog.

  19. That is so neat that you are pursuing a doula certification. What organization are you going through? I'm hoping/planning on getting my childbirth educator's certification in November. :-)I found your blog through the UBP…I'm going to go browse around. :-)~ Carrie ~

  20. Hi there, Thanks for stopping by and introducing yourself. I love your blog! What a wonderful thing you have going here. It sounds like we have a lot in common :)I look forward to reading more of your posts!

  21. Nice to meet you! Stopping by from UBP. I'm a new foollower, oops, yes I am often a fool, but I meant to say follower!Stop by and visit if you have a minute or two….

  22. shopannies says:

    following the UBP party route and found you I love the way your blog looks and signed up to follow please visit my blog if you find time

  23. Hi! I'm stopping by from the UBP. Hope you can come by my place, too:

  24. rob says:

    Love this UBP, we are finding some great blogs to follow~yours included!!Such a cute site…thank-you so much for visiting our site. We appreciate all the vistors we get. We a new to the blogging world, but are loving it!

  25. i totally agree with you on how so many new moms aren't told about the reality of motherhood.. i's amazing..don't get me wrong i LOVE being a mama but one told me about the complete exhaustion the first few months after having sophia!! haha. but now i feel like a pro..and with this second baby coming i'm ready! 🙂 ps. your blog is just too stinkin cute.

  26. Visiting from UBP – have a fantastic party!

  27. Very nice to meet you! I love all aspects of child birth and pregnancy too! Happy blog party week 🙂

  28. Tiaras says:

    hee hee – I am also a converted type A personality prior to having kids, done thrown in the towel to chaos once baby #3 was born!Lovely to meet you- thanks for stopping by on the UBP

  29. I agree, motherhood is sugar-coated. Things have turned out differently than I imagined from day one, but that's not a bad thing.I'm looking forward to reading your natural recipes!

  30. Cute blog… and happy blog party! Love meeting so many nice people. Stop over at my blog and drop a comment. God bless!

  31. hello and what a pleasant blog! i am so glad i found it. I am now a email reader/follower. I also sent you a tweet. Enjoy the rest of the party!

  32. joeandbridge says:

    Hi there! Just popping in from the UBP to be your newest Google Follower! Hooray! Hope you have a great week! Swing by my blog when you get a chance! Bridgette GroschenThe Groschen

  33. Rachel L says:

    I completely agree with your sentiments about not understanding motherhood until you've experienced it firsthand. There's no better teacher than the trenches! Love your thoughts and your great blog!

  34. suzie says:

    Stopping by on the UBPI think it is great that you are going to be a DoulaThe world needs more of you

  35. Hi there! Nice to meet you! I'm stopping by via UBP. I enjoyed reading your blog and will be visiting again soon! We are your newest followers and twittered you -inspired gifts. I admire how you are training to be a Duala, that is amazing! I live in England and have a midwife. :)I hope you can stop by our blog: is a mom owned newly launched site.Have a beautiful dayRebecca

  36. Dana says:

    Hi ! I am your newest follower visiting from the UBP. I love the name of your blog…caught my attention right away! I can't wait to read more.Have a great day!

  37. Merry says:

    Visiting from UBP! I think it is so cool that you are becoming a doula. We had a doula at the birth of my son and it was the best thing we ever did. I'm following your blog now. I hope you'll stop by and say "hi" at my blog sometime! Hope you've had a great UBP!

  38. Cheryl D. says:

    Hi! I'm popping by via the UBP! Great site!

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