I think it’s so important to not lose yourself and your relationship with your significant other after having kids. Sometimes we can get so wrapped up in our everyday life with kids that we forget to focus on our relationship as a couple. In the beginning it was easy to find a babysitter and we got out quite often. But now we have three under 5 1/2 and it’s just not as easy anymore. After they go to bed we are both doing work or working around the house. So how do we find time together. We started “Date Night.” Every Wednesday night after the kids go to bed we pick something to do together. No cleaning or working on the computer is allowed. Sometimes it’s a movie and popcorn, a game, or even a little campfire outside if weather allows. I really look forward to it, regardless of what it may be.
How do you spend some quality time with your significant other?